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		<title>Common Medical Travel Problems &amp; Solutions</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every year more and more US-Americans are exploring Health Travel or Medical Travel (also called Medical Tourism) as an option to get affordable access to urgently required medical procedures or cosmetic treatments. However, Health Travel is not the holy grail and there are several common&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every year more and more US-Americans are exploring Health Travel or Medical Travel (also called Medical Tourism) as an option to get affordable access to urgently required medical procedures or cosmetic treatments. However, Health Travel is not the holy grail and there are several common health travel problems. Fortunately, there are also <strong>solutions</strong> to these problems if one is proactive and takes the necessary steps to prevent them.</p>
<p><strong>Language</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-894" style="margin: 5px 10px;" title="Colombia - Cartagena" src="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Colombia08-300x150.jpg" alt="Health Travel and Medical Travel Colombia" width="300" height="150" /></p>
<p>The first solution to the language barrier is to use medical practitioners who speak your language. Global medical tourism has exploded in India, Colombia, Mexico, Thailand and several other nations. Traveling to a nation in which medical providers speak your language prevents the language gap.</p>
<p>Another choice is to hire a translator. However, it is critical to use a translator who is familiar with medical terminology as well as local jargon. You cannot afford to misunderstand medical instructions or reports of symptoms.</p>
<p>As good as a translator can be, he or she can never replace a doctor who speaks your language and is actully able to ignite your trust into the doctor-patient relationship.</p>
<p><strong>Quality</strong></p>
<p>Healthcare has been going global in a push for cheaper care. Yet patients need to be careful about the quality of care they receive. This can be done through a vetting of the medical credentials of those performing the medical care. Preference should be given to medical practitioners whose training and credentials were received in the West or are recognized as equal to those in the West.</p>
<p><strong>Cost</strong></p>
<p>Consult with your health insurance company before assuming care abroad will be covered. If traveling overseas, consider getting health insurance for travelers that will cover emergencies in that nation. If seeking care abroad because you cannot get timely care in your own nation, find out if the national health insurance program will cover the medical costs of service abroad.</p>
<p><strong>Travel</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-612" style="margin: 5px 10px;" title="Globe Stethoscope Passport" src="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/globe_stethoscope_passport.jpg" alt="Medical Tourism and Health Travel Colombia" width="193" height="190" /></p>
<p>Travel to cheaper locations for medical care ranges from three hours from the USA to Colombia to a full day from the USA to India (consider the drastic time zone change). The cheaper cost of global healthcare is partially offset by the cost to travel to other nations. To have a fair comparison you should always ask for TCOT (Total Cost of Treatment), which includes travel and accomodation, whether it&#8217;s abroad or in the next big city.</p>
<p>Travel also adds additional risks for patients. Patients should not travel long distance when facing serious health challenges. Global healthcare works best for elective procedures and those that improve quality of life but do not risk the patientís life to delay. Medium risk procedures like knee replacements, gastric bypass and cosmetic surgery or low risk fertility treatments are examples of this type of beneficial and expensive procedure that can be scheduled and handled overseas.</p>
<p>Procedures such as coronary bypass surgery should only be done when there is no risk of someone having a heart attack while traveling to the overseas location. First rate aftercare and close monitoring after the surgery at the same location where the medical procedure was performed also reduce the risk to patients. By ensuring the patient is stable and safe to travel, the risk of traveling home is eliminated.</p>
<p><strong>Aftercare</strong></p>
<p>Select health care providers who allow aftercare in addition to any procedures they perform. For example, do not use a healthcare provider that only performs a surgery and sends you back to a hotel room. Select a healthcare provider who either covers several days of supervised recovery or releases you to a resort that monitors your recovery while you enjoy recreational activities or a spa-like setting. Ensure that seeking private care abroad will not disqualify you for medical care and monitoring upon returning home.</p>
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		<title>Want to live healthy? Start with a healthy Breakfast</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nutritionists agree that breakfast is the most important meal of the day to have a balanced diet. Many people who want to lose weight, develop the habit of cutting a meal. And nothing is easier than cutting breakfast, since you are running late to work anyway!&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/healthy_food.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-118" title="Diabetes Superfoods" src="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/healthy_food-300x199.jpg" alt="Healthy Food - Healthy You!" width="300" height="199" /></a>Nutritionists agree that breakfast is the most important meal of the day to have a balanced diet. Many people who want to lose weight, develop the habit of cutting a meal. And nothing is easier than cutting breakfast, since you are running late to work anyway! However, scientific evidence shows that not having a balanced breakfast can have the opposite effect.</p>
<p>The explanation is simple. Breakfast seeks to break the fast of the night, which on average is eight hours. If someone does not have break-fast, the body interprets this as a sign of starvation and reduces its metabolism to spend as little as possible. At lunchtime, after being without food for more than 12 hours, the body begins to feel hungry and order food. Under these circumstances your body will bot accept just an apple or lettuce, but rather ask for food rich in carbohydrates. All this excess food is then stored as fat. It&#8217;s like saving for future fasting.</p>
<p>If you eat a healthy and nutritious breakfast, your body is stimulated. Breakfast is the spark to ignite metabolism.</p>
<p>Having a healthy breakfast supports a balanced nutrition throughout the day!</p>
<p>You have questions or want to discuss health-related topics &#8211; ask our specialists on FlyClinic&#8217;s <a title="Healthcare Forum" href="http://www.flyclinic.net/">Healthcare Forum </a>(www.FlyClinic.com).</p>
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		<title>Medellin &#8230; South America&#8217;s Hidden Secret</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 18:19:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Medellin, once famous for its drug cartel, has left the violence behind and is now one of the most thriving cities in South America. Its mild climate gave it the byname &#8220;City of Eternal Spring&#8221; and if you had a chance to visit the city&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="dropcap">M</span>edellin, once famous for its drug cartel, has left the violence behind and is now one of the most thriving cities in South America. Its mild climate gave it the byname &#8220;City of Eternal Spring&#8221; and if you had a chance to visit the city you will agree. More and more tourists distrust the awful image of drugs and violence Hollywood Movies gave the city and discover the true Medellin. Having been a true disruptive innovator in public transportation projects, Medellin is the first city worldwide that has taken funiculars and turned them into a network of mass transportation.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-427" style="margin: 5px 10px;" title="medellin1" src="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/medellin1-300x190.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="190" />But the city is also showing off in other fields. Several international companies in 3D movie animation take advantage of a great pool of creative talent in the city and set up shop here. Medical services have also always been a strength of Medellin. Some of South America&#8217;s best doctors and clinics can be found here, providing first class healthcare to an increasing number of patients from the US who either can&#8217;t afford their medical procedure in the US or who prefer the privacy of a cosmetic treatment or plastic surgery abroad. Couples in desperate search of a baby spend some time in the relaxed ambient of some of the best and most successful fertility clinics in the country &#8211; many of them going home with a dream fulfilled. Serving this increasing demand of medical procedures and cosmetic treatments abroad, South America&#8217;s first online platform for medical services and cosmetic treatments has been founded in Medellin in 2011 by two foreigners who have experienced the exceptional medical services in Colombia themselves. <a href="../../">FlyClinic</a> is is carefully selecting doctors and clinics, offering patients a variety of professionals and institutions to choose from. It&#8217;s 5-star healthcare for budget prices.</p>
<p>Most importantly, FlyClinic provides <a title="Procedures" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/procedures/">vast information to patients prior to their procedure</a>, raising awareness about opportunities and risks of medical procedures as well as cosmetic treatments and plastic surgery. <a title="Medical Tourism Colombia: Blog Contributions" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/category/blog/">Our blog</a> frequently discusses critical issues ranging from causes of infertility, stress management, risks in medical procedures to recommendations on whether or not one should go for plastic surgery or a cosmetic treatment. Finally, patients can directly communicate with their specialists through our <a title="Medical Tourism Colombia - Healthcare Forum" href="http://www.flyclinic.net/">Patient Health Forum</a> and <a title="Book Flight &amp; Hotel" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/travel_book_flight_hotel_car/">book their flight or hotel</a> on FlyClinic Travel.</p>
<p>Where do patients and their families stay after the successful surgery? Medellin features some of the best hotels in the country &#8211; however, most families decide to go for an apartment and find one of the best providers in <a href="http://www.theapartmentmedellin.com/">The Apartment Medellin</a>, an extremely successful project by another Expat &#8211; catering to the specific needs of the foreigner coming to Medellin on business or medical trips.</p>
<p>The Apartment Medellin started 5 years ago when tourism began to increase in Medellin.  From a single room, the company has expanded to more than 40 upmarket units to service the growing need for comfortable and affordable accommodation for discerning western tastes.  An apartment is the perfect option to relax and enjoy privacy in your own home away from home while undergoing any medical procedure.  The ability to have full time medical staff or assistance with you 24 hours a day if required is a huge benefit considering the cost, size and impersonal nature of hotels.</p>
<p>The Apartment Medellin not only provides excellent service to tourists visiting Medellin but also provides the tools and expert advice for investors to purchase rental property in Medellin and make double digit returns while enjoying their vacation home whenever they wish. If you are coming to Medellin often for regular treatments, this could be a golden opportunity to not only buy into a blossoming market, but also generate rental income that could pay for your medical procedures.</p>
<p>The Apartment Medellin and FlyClinic are presenting this week at the &#8220;<a href="http://www.liveandinvestoverseas.com/">Live and Invest Overseas Conference</a>&#8221; in Medellin, the first event of its kind to be held in Colombia, showing future retirees and savvy investors opportunities in this market … South America&#8217;s hidden secret.</p>
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		<title>What comes from Colombia? Coffee, Emeralds and Babies!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 13:52:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Until very recently, there were very few couples who would have considered seeking fertility treatment in Colombia. With what many would imagine as superior facilities available in the United States, Canada and Europe, there would be no logical reason to go to Colombia for any&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Until very recently, there were very few couples who would have considered seeking fertility treatment in <a title="Colombia" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/colombia/"><strong>Colombia</strong></a>. With what many would imagine as superior facilities available in the United States, Canada and Europe, there would be no logical reason to go to <a title="Colombia" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/colombia/"><strong>Colombia</strong></a> for any kind of medical attention. However, statistics are now pointing to a steady rise in the number of patients seeking Colombian healthcare services. Over the past 3 years, the number of foreigners coming in has risen at a rate well above 10% annually. Of these cases, more than 50% of them are couples in need of fertility treatment.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-595" style="margin: 5px 10px;" title="Loving Couple Piggybacking Together" src="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/couple_on_the_beach_fertility-300x199.jpg" alt="Relaxed Environment for Fertility Treatment: Colombia" width="300" height="199" />There are a number of factors that have been seen to contribute towards this peculiar and highly interesting development. The first factor is the ever increasing number of Colombian doctors and healthcare professionals who have trained in the US and Europe. Having pursued their medical training in distinguished medical schools, these Colombian doctors deliver healthcare services that are at par with their counterparts in North America and Europe. They are highly qualified and skilled with most having had some experience practicing in the country where they trained. To date, there has been a very high success rate reported by doctors and fertility experts who are offering fertility treatment in Colombia.</p>
<p>In addition to highly skilled professionals, Colombia has seen significant improvement of its medical facilities over the recent past. Hospitals and health centers around the country now have state of the art equipment and operate in line with <a title="Fertility Treatments" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/fertility-treatments/">internationally accepted medical procedures</a>. The country is now an international healthcare destination thanks to the excellent facilities and highly qualified staff who are working to provide treatment.</p>
<p>Another big advantage that has led to an increase in the number of <a title="Fertility Treatments" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/fertility-treatments/">couples seeking fertility treatment in Colombia</a> is the favorable cost of medical services in the country. When compared to services of a similar nature and standard in other parts of the world, Colombia is significantly cheaper. A procedure that costs 35,000 USD in the States will cost about 6,000 USD in Colombia. With the average difference in costs being about 70%, it makes a lot more sense to seek treatment in Colombia.</p>
<p>While all the above benefits are great for anyone seeking medical care, there are a number of advantages that are specific to the treatment of fertility related issues. A relaxed environment is the biggest benefitthat the country has to offer. Fertility problems are significantly aggravated by stress and tension. While abroad, most people tend to find it easier to relax and thus they respond better to treatment. Combining fertility treatment with some holiday time is a great idea that has been embraced by a lot of couples.</p>
<p>With its great weather, breath taking natural spectacles, rich culture and fun activities, <strong>Colombia</strong> offers an opportunity to not only heal the body but also the mind and soul. It is the perfect setting and has the needed facilities as well as capable experts to help couples overcome fertility issues. If you and your partner or someone you know is looking for help, seeking quality fertility treatment in <strong>Colombia</strong> should be among the top options you consider.</p>
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		<title>Fertility Problems: Do I need to see a Doctor?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 18:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To be successful achieving pregnancy in a couple with a fertility disorder it is essential to consult the right specialist at the right time. Studies in large populations of couples in their reproductive age have shown that a couple having a normal and periodic sexual&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><em><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-599" style="margin: 5px 10px;" title="doctor_stethoscope" src="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/doctor_stethoscope.jpg" alt="" width="193" height="190" />To be successful achieving pregnancy in a couple with a fertility disorder it is essential to consult the right specialist at the right time.</em></strong></p>
<div>Studies in large populations of couples in their reproductive age have shown that a couple having a normal and periodic sexual life with periodic intercourse has a 85% chance of achieving pregnancy within one year, not using and kind of method to prevent pregnancy.</div>
<div>If pregnancy is not achieved in the first year of an active and periodic sex life, without family planning, you should consult a specialist, since the likelihood of pregnancy during the second year decreases drastically, consolidating as an INFERTILITY diagnose for the couple.</div>
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Societies for reproductive medicine recommend to check first if the female partner is over 35 years of age or if there are precedents in the medical history of the couple indicating potential difficulties in achieving pregnancy.</div>
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<strong>Questions your fertility specialist will ask you:</strong></h3>
<p>- Have you tried unsuccessfully for more than a year, with an active sexual life and without using any method to prevent pregnancy?<br />
- Is the female partner older than 35 years and have you tried more than six months without success?<br />
- Does the female partner have severe menstrual cramps or a history of endometriosis?</p>
<p>- Does the female partner have polycystic ovaries, symptoms such as irregular menstrual cycles, increased body hair and face, acne, oily skin and / or abnormal vaginal bleeding?<br />
- Have you ever had a diagnosis of adhesions syndrome or a history of pelvic infections, abdominal surgery, or perforated appendicitis?<br />
- Is there a history of diseases or malformations of the uterus, and uterine fibroids and partitions?<br />
- Is there a history of pathologies of the testicles, such as mumps with involvement of the testes, varicocele, testicular trauma, and / or testicular atrophy?<br />
- Do you suffer from a sexual dysfunction, preventing you from an active sexual life, such as impotence (inability to achieve an erection) in men and vaginismus (severe pain at the time of penetration ) in women?<br />
- Do you have difficulty ejaculating, due to previous surgery of the prostate, psychological disorders, malformations of the genitals or neurological diseases or diabetes?</p>
<div>Make sure you are talking to a fertility expert. A general urologist or gynecologist without a specialization in fertility disorders will not be able to evaluate the impact of different factors of fertility disorders in an adequate way. They might also mix their fertility success rate of general patients with patients showing a fertility disorder. You should also inform yourself about <a title="Fertility Treatments" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/fertility-treatments/">procedures to treat fertility disorder</a>, like <a title="IVF – In Vitro Fertilization" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/fertility-treatments/ivf-invitro_fertilization/">IVF</a> or <a title="ICSI – Intra-cytoplasmic Sperm Injection" href="http://www.flyclinic.com/fertility-treatments/icsi-intra-cytoplasmic-sperm-injection/">ICSI</a>.</div>
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		<title>Emotional and Psychological Aspects of Couples Undergoing Fertility Treatment (3/3)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 20:12:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by: Martha Cecilia Ramirez Echeverry, Specialist in Human Sexuality Psychology, INSER Medellin-Colombia (published with permission) Member of FlyClinic&#8217;s Global Healthcare Network The couple experiences depression! They feel grief, a grief, which almost always coincides with a loss. There are different ways in which this is&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #808080;"><em>by: Martha Cecilia Ramirez Echeverry, Specialist in Human Sexuality Psychology,<br />
</em><em>INSER Medellin-Colombia (published with permission)<br />
</em><em>Member of </em></span><em></em><span style="color: #808080;"><em><a title="FlyClinic Medical Tourism in Colombia" href="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/free-consultation/"><span style="color: #808080;">FlyClinic&#8217;s Global Healthcare Network</span></a></em></span></p>
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<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-103" title="couple_in_crisis_03" src="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/couple_in_crisis_03-300x223.jpg" alt="Fertility Treatment - Couple in Crisis" width="300" height="223" />The couple experiences depression! They feel grief, a grief, which almost always coincides with a loss. There are different ways in which this is expressed; it can be through sadness, a wish to mourn, poor appetite, insomnia, fatigue, anxiety or discouragement to work, study or pursue other daily activities. Also the opposite might happen: excessive sleep, a constant desire to eat and addiction to work or hobbies.</p>
<p>The way we grow as men and women has much to do with the way each of the genders expresses feelings and therefore the difference in how they express depression. While men should express strength, control of fear and anxiety, the most common reactions are rage and anger. Whereas it is more socially accepted for women to show fear, anxiety and sadness and reject rage or anger.</p>
<p>From their childhood on man hear phrases like <em>&#8220;Don&#8217;t cry, you look like a girl!&#8221;</em> or <em>&#8220;Children don&#8217;t cry!&#8221;</em>. They are not allowed to play with dolls because people see the integrity of their future manhood in danger. In adulthood, women may mourn, to express their anguish and concern, but for some men it remains unacceptable to express emotions, which should be abolished. The fact of not expressing themselves does not make them disappear from the individual&#8217;s intrapsychic reality, but trying to express themselves through in other forms such as moodiness, increased alcohol consumption, aggression, low sexual desire, excessive interest in their job.</p>
<p><strong>GRIEF AND LOSS</strong></p>
<p>The couple faces the imminent loss of a son who so far has not materialized for them, but has existed in their lives through a dream, an illusion, a fantasy. Every time they undergo any procedure they are feeding their delusions and each occurrence of menstruation in women is reviving the loss and has them experience micro mournings.</p>
<p>Therefore many women and their partners are depressed facing their defeat: menstrual bleeding. In society there are various support systems to assist in the elaboration of mourning. When a person loses a relative or a loved one, rituals are practiced like funeral, sympathy, solidarity visits, and people accepting and understanding the state of sadness that the person experiences.</p>
<p>Not so with infertility &#8211; although the loss is very real for the couple. Partners rarely share with people close to their family and friends the fact that they are undergoing treatment for fear of being criticized, censured or pitied. We are simply identifying them as alone in their experiences and feelings without the benefit of usual support systems and living these micro mournings in silent isolation.</p>
<p>Other experiences involving the elaboration of mourning include when the couple is in the process of treatment and opts for the reception of donated semen, ova or embryos, which increases the chance of pregnancy but where they will be forced to relinquish paternity or biological or genetic motherhood. The most important thing is to help the couple to overcome irrational thoughts and fears about the relationship with their son / daughter, against their expectations and their future roles as fathers / mothers.</p>
<p>Research in the relationship between infertility, grief reactions and depression has been deepened . Some studies have shown the occurence of depression doubled among infertile women, in relation to the general female population. In these studies it is postulated that in some cases depression should not be considered only a stage in the evolution of mourning for infertility, but is a disorder in itself, associated with biological and psychological conditions that must be treated and which could be contributing to infertility.</p>
<p><strong>SEX LIFE</strong></p>
<p>There are times when the partners seeks to withdraw from each other. This is almost always expressed as difficulty in communicating verbally and openly expressing their feelings, doubts and fears. Sexuality, being an important form of expression of non-verbal communication, this isolation of the couple in erotic exchanges is strongly felt and begins to present a conflict, sometimes for the first time, sometimes repeatedly.</p>
<p>Often in fertility treatment couples are advised to increase their sexual activity during the pre-ovulatory period, especially sexual intercourse including intravaginal ejaculation. The couple welcomes this recommendation and inadvertently or unintentionally, their sexuality becomes programmed, little spontaneous, it becomes a binding character. Some couples and doctors come to call it &#8220;work&#8221;.</p>
<p>Without realizing their sexuality has become merely reproductive, they presenting fantasies, thoughts and desires of pregnancy in their erotic encounter in sentences like (did we get pregnant … what helps to conceive … what do we do this time to conceive). With these thoughts the couple is turning off expressions as important as the tenderness and affection &#8211; physical contact and proximity lose importance. This situation, if it becomes very repetitive and long term, can lead to malfunctions and erotic desire disorder in general or only during the fertile period, anorgasmia (no orgasms), dyspareunia (painful intercourse), erectile dysfunction (difficulty with erection), premature ejaculation. The pictured malfunctions described above are mostly transient and reversible with appropriate treatment.</p>
<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s sexual conflicts which lead couples to develop their infertility. For example, vaginismus and erectile dysfunction are the most common causes. Desire disorder is less perceived as a problem by couples and sometimes professionals do not detail the frequency of erotic encounters in their consultation. However, a frequency of once every month or two or three months is by itself a cause of infertility because it reduces the real possibility that such events will occur during the reproductive period.</p>
<p><strong>UNEXPLAINED INFERTILITY</strong></p>
<p>To classify a couple in this category they must have: normal tubes, normal ovulation, normal semen microscopy (and hopefully other tests) and at least one year of unprotected intercourse.</p>
<p>The most important prognostic factors are: the duration of infertility and age of the female partner. It is observed that the cumulative pregnancy rates are good, without treatment, when infertility is less than 3 years. These couples do not require any treatment, just reassure them in the sense that everything is within normal and are usually referred to psychology with psychogenic infertility diagnosis supporting a causal relationship between psychological conflicts and the presence of infertility in adulthood.</p>
<p>In the 50&#8242;s and 60&#8242;s it had been stated that about 40% of infertility problems were psychogenic, associated with early conflicts between mother and daughter. Several studies suggest that experiencing early maternal rejection produced feelings of hostility associated with the idea of motherhood, difficulties with being a mom and therefore an unconscious rejection of pregnancy.</p>
<p>Other studies analyzed the infertility as a psychosomatic box. There has been talk of functional infertility as difficulty to gestate a child, a somatic defense against stress of pregnancy and motherhood. In other studies the hypothesis that arises is that of ambivalence toward motherhood, ie the coexistence of positive desires with fear or other negative feelings. This is a widespread experience in women in the western world.</p>
<p>The feeling of guilt would be generated by feelings of love and rejection, which take precedence over the desire to be a mother. This conflict is difficult to be tolerated and the person knowingly expresses a frantic and anxious desire to conceive. Previous studies have been based on material from medical records, without attempting a comparison with normal female fertility or other control and therefore the findings are not generalizable and fall into gender bias. With the development of new techniques in the diagnosis and treatment, the diagnosis of unexplained infertility is 5% in specialized reproduction centers.</p>
<p>Stress by itself is a normal response. The styles of confronting stress are those that mark the differences in positive or negative reactions and healthy approaches. Those styles can be: active (actively seeking information) and palliative (diverse search for anxiety relief). They have been found to be protective and preventing depressions while styles like the regressive and the open expression of negative motions are not always positive if the infertility factor is female, because emotions are transformed into guilt and if the infertility factor is male it protects emotions of anger and aggression.</p>
<p>However, clinical observations of psychological responses of a person show that they can change and overcome intense states of anxiety or depression, for example the response of one partner influences the emotional response of the other &#8211; the woman&#8217;s emotional overflow can generate an avoidant answer of the male partner, which, in turn, stimulates a stronger emotional response by the female partner due to bad &#8220;tuning&#8221; within the couple.</p>
<p>Recent studies suggest that stress can influence the outcome of infertility treatments. This evidence has led to studies and the development of tools to describe and measure the specific stress triggers of infertility. It is described as chronic stress, resulting from persistent condition over time and is perceived as a threat to important domains of psychological development and social roles. Newton developed in the late 90&#8242;s the INVENTORY OF FERTILITY PROBLEMS FPI (Canada) which includes 46 questions covering 6 scales that include the main negative feelings of infertility such as: social scale, sexual relationship scale, need of paternity, denial of life without children, global stress. This type of questionnaire allows to characterize the responses of couples and evaluated over time those negative feeling and the effect of psychological interventions. The relevance of these instruments is to provide an objective assessment of the quality and intensity of emotional response and direct psychological work.</p>
<p>Studies in Australia and England show that even though couples recognize the need for counseling and psychological support, less than 25% of them make use of them. However, they are confident they can be accessed when required and it has also been observed that couples most affected are not the ones least likely to seek these services. More awareness and responsibility in fertility professionals has to be created as an integral element to approach couples.</p>
<p>All the situations described above coupled to each other, are undermining the defenses of couples and many of them succumb or remain trapped there for long. Others succeed in overcoming this situation through their own strength, generating some emotional wounds. Finally others, with or without professional help, achieve their much desired fertility. Most of the time these feelings are collected, detailed and overcome. They are not left behind completely, but at least do not return the way they were. The return of energy, wellness, perspectives, optimism, hope and even humor and being triggered and the couple begin to plan for the future. There is then a new beginning, where perhaps the couple finds what it longs for: a <strong>CHILD</strong>.</p>
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<div>Whereas Martha Ramirez gave a brief <a title="Emotional and Psychological Aspects of Couples Undergoing Fertility Treatment (1/3)" href="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/2012/emotional-and-psychological-aspects-of-couples-undergoing-fertility-treatment-1/">introduction to the emotional and psychological aspects of couples undergoing fertility treatment</a> in the first part of this 3 part series, she explained in the second part the <a title="Emotional and Psychological Aspects of Couples Undergoing Fertility Treatment (2/3)" href="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/2012/emotional-and-psychological-aspects-of-couples-undergoing-fertility-treatment-23/">elements common to a crisis and the negative feelings couples are facing</a> if results do not show up as initially expected and dictated by social norms. In this third part, Martha Ramirez explains the reasons that might be causing such a crisis.</div>
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<div><strong>BIBLIOGRAPHY </strong><br />
<em>[1] Moller A, Fallstrom M,. Psychological consequences of infertility: a longitudinal study. J Psychosom Obstet Gynaecol. 12,13-26, 1991</em><br />
<em>[2] Whiteford LM, Gonzalez L. Stigma: the hidden burden of infertility. Soc Sci Med 40,27-36, 1995</em><br />
<em>[3] Lalos A. Breaking bad news concerninf infertility. Hum Reprod 14,581-583, 1999</em><br />
<em>[4] Freeman EW, Boxer AS, Rickels K, et al. Psychological evaluation and support in aprogram of in vitro fertilization and embryo transfer. Fertil Steril 43, 48-53, 1985</em><br />
<em>[5] Greil AL. Infertility and psychological distress: a critical review of the literature. Soc Sci Med 45, 1679-1704, 1997</em><br />
<em>[6] Dommar AD, Clapp D, Slawsby EA et al. Impact of group psychological interventions on pregnancy rates in infertile women. Fertil Steril 73, 803-811, 2000</em><br />
<em>[7] Fassino S, Garzaro L, Peris C, et al. Temperament and character in couples with fertility disorders: a double blind controlled study Fertil Steril 77,1233-1240, 2002</em><br />
<em>[8] Raigosa G. Evaluación del Factor Femenino. En Urología De los Ríos S, De los Ríos J. eds Editorial Universidad de Antioquia, Medellin 2004</em><br />
<em>[9] Hjelmsted A, Andersson L, Skoog-Svanberg A, et al. Gender differences in psychological reactions to infertility among couples seeking IVF and ICSI treatment. Acta Obstet Gynecol Scand 78, 42-48, 1999.</em><br />
<em>[10] Bendeck T. Infertility as a psychosomatic defense. Fertil Steril 527-541, 1952</em><br />
<em>[11] Menning BE, Teh emotional needs of infertile couples. Fertil Steril 34, 313-319, 1980</em><br />
<em>[12] Dommar AD, Zuttermeister PC and Freidman R. The psychological impact of infertility: a comparison with patients with other medical conditions. J Psychosom Obstet Gynaecol 14, 45-52</em></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #808080;"><em>by: Martha Cecilia Ramirez Echeverry, Specialist in Human Sexuality Psychology,</em></span><br />
<span style="color: #808080;"><em>INSER Medellin-Colombia (published with permission),</em></span><br />
<span style="color: #808080;"><em>Member of the <a title="FlyClinic Medical Tourism in Colombia" href="http://www.FlyClinic.com"><span style="color: #808080;">FlyClinic Global Healthcare Network</span></a></em></span></p>
<p><strong><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-104" style="margin: 5px 10px;" title="couple_in_crisis" src="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/couple_in_crisis-200x300.jpg" alt="Fertility Treatment - Couple in Crisis" width="200" height="300" />Elements common to a crisis are:</strong><br />
1. Feeling the threat of living an insolvable situation in the immediate moment.<br />
2. The feeling of not having your own solutions to the conflict.<br />
3. Feeling threatened the couple&#8217;s goals and each partner&#8217;s personal goals.<br />
4. Remembering critical past experiences of one or both partners.</p>
<p>The infertility crisis differs from a general traumatic crisis, because infertile couples can remain in this state of crisis in the long run if the problem is not solved.<br />
Freeman [4] found that before <a href="http://www.flyclinic.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;view=article&amp;id=504&amp;gid=34&amp;Itemid=171">IVF</a>, 48% of women and 15% of men described infertility as the most traumatic experiences of their lifes.<br />
Barbara Menning [11] in the 70&#8242;s made one of the greatest contributions by observing and describing systematically and scientifically a psychosocial approach, as on how the condition of infertility is threatening the life-project, social functioning, self-esteem and sexuality of the infertile couple. She describes the negative emotional feelings and the impact on the couple, after failure of treatment with assisted reproductive techniques. From these publications studies are emphasizing more on describing and interpreting the psychological consequences of infertility, i.e. the psychological sequelae of this condition.</p>
<p>The following describes the life crisis caused by difficulties in conceiving, the failure of treatment, repetitive reproductive losses and the grief accompanying the chain reaction of negative emotional feelings.</p>
<h3>NEGATIVE EMOTIONAL FEELINGS</h3>
<p><strong>1. SURPRISE</strong></p>
<p>A shock, an emotional jolt. As its name suggests the couple is surprised to face the difficulty of conceiving. Apparently it is very simple, everyone seems to be able to achieve it, other married couples who married about the same time, brothers and sisters. It seems they are the only ones or are among the few who are having this problem. It&#8217;s like waking up from a deep dream that started in your childhood. An illusion collapses and they, now adults, do not know what to do. Childhood fears are present again, stay awhile, for some only weeks, for others months. This sentiment mobilizes some couples to seek professional help.</p>
<p><strong>2. DENIAL</strong></p>
<p>To some extent, we all use is as a tool for adaptation whenever life presents us with a painful situation, tending to ignore reality, minimizing what happened, or creating a more acceptable fantasy of the situation we are living.<br />
For couples seeking fertility it appears through thoughts like: that doctor does not know, this should not be our result, the lab made a mistake, repeat the test, we are very young wait longer, we are very healthy, we have not suffered from any rare disease. For this reason it is often observed that the couple had been treated by different institutions and been subject to various surgeries and treatments. However, they have not conceived.<br />
Perhaps it is the denial mechanism that makes the couple sabotage the doctor&#8217;s efforts. When the couple actually abandons their denial and starts believing that they need help, they better accept treatment and will become more cooperative and be able to receive effective support.</p>
<p><strong>3. FEAR</strong></p>
<p>… of losing control, especially of their life. Fear can be irrational, seeking explanations in past situations, such as abortions, contraception, infidelity, homosexuality, infertility, masturbation, sexually transmitted infections, child abuse, etc.</p>
<p><strong>4. GUILT</strong></p>
<p>… presents itself as valve to release the pressure exerted by the situation of infertility and the pain experienced. Knowing what the source or type of fear is the couple lives is very important. This should be discussed in a safe environment like a therapy, which provides a non-judgmental acceptance and sincere empathy.<br />
The situations referred to unleash feelings of frustration in the couple, which leads to anger and rage. They feel at a crossroads end. It does not depend on them whether or not the situation changes. The situation and the achievement of this goal in their own development depends on the doctor and professional group that attends. This triggers helplessness and frustration, being upset with the way the world is organized.<br />
They feel that life is unfair, while teenagers and people who are not willing or prepared to conceive do, while they who have all the love, do not. They become moody towards many situations and expressions of people around them, even their partner and family, being irritable and easily angered.</p>
<p><strong>5. ISOLATION</strong></p>
<p>The function of insulation is to avoid moments that prove to be painful for them and remember them or get in touch with their infertility situation. They are trying to get away from people, declining attendance to family and social gatherings, avoiding occasional encounters with neighbors, friends, etc.. Their aim is to prevent certain people who&#8217;s verbalized phrases unintentionally become painful for them as: &#8220;How long have you been married?&#8221;, &#8220;Six years and no children?&#8221; and &#8220;When do you want to have children? &#8211; When you are old?&#8221;, &#8220;Marriage is no marriage without children!&#8221;,&#8221;Is it by choice or forced upon you?&#8221;, &#8220;Which of the two does&#8217;nt function? &#8220;. As we were raised much importance has been given to fertility, the role of gender, motherhood and fatherhood in the validation of being a man and woman.</p>
<p>Without realizing it, every member of society is watching and taking care to ensure compliance with the social mandate of conservation of the species. Friends and relatives are inviting to baptisms, first communions, social situations such as the birth of a boy or a girl in the family or meet someone pregnant, putting infertile couples face to face with these ambivalent feelings.</p>
<p>Avoiding people because they do not comply with the plans of the family and society is a difficult situation. When the couple is avoiding their lifelong support networks is paradoxically the time they are most in need of them.</p>
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Whereas Martha Ramirez gave a brief introduction to the emotional and psychological aspects of couples undergoing fertility treatment in the first part of this 3 part series, she explained in this second part the elements common to a crisis and the negative feelings couples are facing if results do not show up as initially expected and dictated by social norms.</p>
<p>In the third part, Martha Ramirez will explain the reasons that might be causing such a crisis.</p>
<p>Please do share your experiences and thoughts on <a title="Forum" href="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/forums/forum/forum/">FlyClinic&#8217;s Healthcare Forum</a> &#8211; helping other couples to overcome their own crisis or searching for help on resolving your own. To follow future publications and discussions on FlyClinic, subscribe to FlyClinic on Twitter (<a href="http://www.flyclinic.com/index.php?option=com_easyblog&amp;view=categories&amp;layout=listings&amp;id=2&amp;Itemid=177#%21/FlyClinic">http://twitter.com/FlyClinic</a>) and stay up to date on medical and cosmetic topics.</p>
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<div><strong>BIBLIOGRAPHY </strong><br />
<em>[1] Moller A, Fallstrom M,. Psychological consequences of infertility: a longitudinal study. J Psychosom Obstet Gynaecol. 12,13-26, 1991</em><br />
<em>[2] Whiteford LM, Gonzalez L. Stigma: the hidden burden of infertility. Soc Sci Med 40,27-36, 1995</em><br />
<em>[3] Lalos A. Breaking bad news concerninf infertility. Hum Reprod 14,581-583, 1999</em><br />
<em>[4] Freeman EW, Boxer AS, Rickels K, et al. Psychological evaluation and support in aprogram of in vitro fertilization and embryo transfer. Fertil Steril 43, 48-53, 1985</em><br />
<em>[5] Greil AL. Infertility and psychological distress: a critical review of the literature. Soc Sci Med 45, 1679-1704, 1997</em><br />
<em>[6] Dommar AD, Clapp D, Slawsby EA et al. Impact of group psychological interventions on pregnancy rates in infertile women. Fertil Steril 73, 803-811, 2000</em><br />
<em>[7] Fassino S, Garzaro L, Peris C, et al. Temperament and character in couples with fertility disorders: a double blind controlled study Fertil Steril 77,1233-1240, 2002</em><br />
<em>[8] Raigosa G. Evaluación del Factor Femenino. En Urología De los Ríos S, De los Ríos J. eds Editorial Universidad de Antioquia, Medellin 2004</em><br />
<em>[9] Hjelmsted A, Andersson L, Skoog-Svanberg A, et al. Gender differences in psychological reactions to infertility among couples seeking IVF and ICSI treatment. Acta Obstet Gynecol Scand 78, 42-48, 1999.</em><br />
<em>[10] Bendeck T. Infertility as a psychosomatic defense. Fertil Steril 527-541, 1952</em><br />
<em>[11] Menning BE, Teh emotional needs of infertile couples. Fertil Steril 34, 313-319, 1980</em><br />
<em>[12] Dommar AD, Zuttermeister PC and Freidman R. The psychological impact of infertility: a comparison with patients with other medical conditions. J Psychosom Obstet Gynaecol 14, 45-52</em></div>
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<em> INSER Medellin-Colombia (published with permission),</em><br />
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<p>The proof of fertility has played a key role in our society. <img class="alignright size-full wp-image-102" title="couple_in_crisis_02" src="http://www.flyclinic.co/_FLYCLINIC/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/couple_in_crisis_02.jpg" alt="Couple undergoing Fertility Treatment in Crisis" width="283" height="424" />However, it has been changing as the number of children and the age of conception have too. Fertility is very important for gender roles as a validation of masculinity and femininity. Beginning in their childhood, boy and girls learn, through their games, what their role in society in terms of gender, sexuality and fertility is. Infertility is not considered, neither expected. All men and women are simply potential parents. When a couple decides to consolidate its union and share their life, different development goals are marked: personal, occupational, academic, among others. After achieving some of these goals, the couple seeks to fulfill one more, that is fertility, but sometimes this goal is not achieved as easily as expected.<br />
The <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_Health_Organization">WHO</a> defines reproductive health as a condition in which the reproduction is achieved in a state of complete physical, mental and social development. Not only the absence of disease or disorders of the reproductive process.<br />
Infertility by itself may not threaten physical health but it certainly has a serious impact on social and mental well-being of couples. In many countries the stigma of infertility often leads to marital disharmony, divorce or isolation.<br />
The suffering experienced by an infertile couple is very real, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_Health_Organization">WHO</a> estimates that there are 60 to 70 million infertile couples. A study done in <a href="https://www.flyclinic.co/index.php?option=com_content&amp;view=article&amp;id=527&amp;gid=34&amp;Itemid=142">Cali</a> found that infertility is 14% in <a href="https://www.flyclinic.co/index.php?option=com_content&amp;view=article&amp;id=525&amp;gid=34&amp;Itemid=139">Colombia</a>. An 8% to 10% of couples may face difficulty conceiving a child they want. This means that between 50 &#8211; 80 million people worldwide may require review and possible <a href="http://www.flyclinic.net/index.php?option=com_ninjaboard&amp;view=forum&amp;id=22&amp;Itemid=1">fertility treatments</a>.<br />
The ability for a couple to conceive without any adverse factors is 30% (3 of 10) in the first month. This percentage goes down gradually to 25% in the second month, 20% in the third and so on. The possibility accumulated at the end of one year is 80% or 8 out of 10 couples have been pregnant after the first year. From then on the possibility of getting pregnant spontaneously drops to only 5% per month. At this point it is advisable to enlist the help of assisted reproduction techniques.For a couple with fertility problems, the decision of treatment depends on: &#8211; the possibility of pregnancy without treatment, &#8211; the chances of pregnancy with a simple but moderately effective treatment, &#8211; the possibility of getting pregnant with complex / expensive but more effective treatment. <a href="https://www.flyclinic.co/index.php?option=com_content&amp;view=article&amp;id=328&amp;gid=34&amp;Itemid=135">Medical procedures</a> in which the eggs are handled in women or sperm in the man, trying to promote fertilization, are classified as assisted reproduction. They can range from the use of ovarian stimulating drugs, ultrasound and hormonal measurements to monitor the process to the processing of semen, insemination, <a href="https://www.flyclinic.co/index.php?option=com_content&amp;view=article&amp;id=504&amp;gid=34&amp;Itemid=171">in vitro fertilization [IVF]</a> and <a href="https://www.flyclinic.co/index.php?option=com_content&amp;view=article&amp;id=506&amp;gid=34&amp;Itemid=171">intra-cytoplasmic sperm injection [ICSI]</a>.<br />
Medical science continues to advance in the area. Fertility studies have advanced since the late seventies with the birth of the first test tube baby in England, defying barriers and reaching the limits of the handling of gametes and embryos to develop techniques to clone humans. The great advances in technology and media have raised expectations in couples regarding to what science has to offer. Unfortunately the avalanche of information on new methods and their successes makes it difficult to have a clear vision about the real possibilities of treatment. Infertility is a problem for some couples because they trigger a number of feelings, emotions and transient adaptive mechanisms that do not involve mental disorder, but that couples are not able to handle.<br />
There are different opinions about what fertility problems really mean. Infertility is classified as a disease, but does not involve the same emotional charge, or reflect as much anguish of those involved, although there are mood changes aligned with what happens during the time of treatment. Infertility is a problem in which both partners share responsibility, but in most societies, social and psychological burden is taken a lot more by women. In fact not only related to coping with infertility, but also in relation to diagnosis and therapy.<br />
Couples today, in accordance with changing cultural values, manage new demands and pressures on the prevailing values &#8211; therefore it is normal for women over 40 years to go to a fertility center in search of their first child and review options and alternatives. Often, only after the age of 30, men and women are establishing the (marital) union, primarily due to working conditions and academic requirements. Couple&#8217;s life has won over other areas, seeking to consolidate their union and enjoy sharing their life. Gender roles in relation to motherhood and fatherhood have changed, having couples think more about the education and upbringing of their children &#8211; tending to postpone the search for them.<br />
The life cycle of the couple and the family goes through different stages of development:</p>
<ol>
<li>The RELEASE of each of the partners from their family.</li>
<li>The MEETING between these two people who are attracted to each other, forming a couple.</li>
<li>The CHILDREN are presented as a result of that union.</li>
<li>The ADOLESCENCE, marking the presence of teenage children in the family.</li>
<li>The REUNION, when the children leave to form a new couple and</li>
<li>The AGED family.</li>
</ol>
<p>When a couple does not reach fertility or the full elaboration of a childless life, the development process of the couple consciously or unconsciously stops and does not continue, leaving the couple stuck in an unresolved experience. The reproduction is central to the lives of men and women and having children is often considered the meaning of life. This desire to have children appears to be extremely strong, transcending gender, race, religion, ethnicity and social class. For this reason, the situation becomes problematic, due to a lot of feelings, emotions and adaptive defense mechanisms. Those are normal and do not imply a transient mental disorder or psychopathology, but instead are rather normal adaptive responses to the new situation &#8211; painful and unexpected.</p>
<p>This triggers a crisis in the couple&#8217;s life. The resolution of a crisis may last about six months. You feel that your mind and your body will not hold and it will explode. After the crisis the couple can:<br />
- emerge unchanged (crisis completely solved),<br />
- emerge with increased emotional stress or<br />
- emerge in a less stable state.</p>
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